This is the one ritual that most likely you will choose to include. You can decide to exchange anything, it doesn’t necessarily have to be a regular ring! A few years ago I held the wedding ceremony of a film director and a poet who decided to exchange a film frame rolled into a ring, and a poem written on a small card, and shaped like a ring. If you are wondering what a vow should include, or if you need inspiration, we have plenty of ideas to share!